Best Weekend Ever (Day Two)

Day Two (Friday) started with me making a frantic call to the pediatrician's office to see if they could work Lou in for an appointment that day.  I think I called at 8:20 and the only thing they had all day was an 8:45.  The office is about ten minutes away.  I threw some clothes on and hightailed it out of there.  BVZ was already on the way out the door for work.  Thank goodness for friends who will make coffee and feed your other kid breakfast.  

Shockingly, Lou did not have an ear infection, just a random, high fever.  The doctor was confident it was some random virus but just to be on the safe side since we had a house full of people and a long weekend ahead of us, she had some blood drawn to check for anything out of the ordinary.  I was expecting the worst from a blood draw, but to my surprise the lab tech said that they would just be pricking his finger and collecting the blood that way.  I thought there was no possible way you could get enough blood in that manner, but she told me that when you have a fever your blood is much thinner and it will "flow out like water."  Totally gross, right?  But sure enough, they stabbed him with the finger stick and flow like water it did.  He also lost his ever loving mind with the finger stick, to the point where I had tears as well (and I am tough when it comes to that kind of stuff).  By the time we were pulling into the driveway, we had the results that he checked out all clear.

The weather was spotty and thunderstorms were predicted and I knew that if we were going to go to this super splash pad it was now or never.  Plus, there was no way I was even entertaining the idea on a weekend, so this was going to be our last chance.  Thankfully, Bubby was available and willing to come over and hang out with a droopy Lou.  He's been to this splash pad before and even though I was sorry he was sick, I was mostly glad he couldn't go. Water activities are rough for me with a kid in diapers and he's just bananas and hard to keep up with.  He pretty much needs man on man defense at all times.

Norah is so much braver than she used to be, but she's still a big chicken about a lot of things.  She likes to survey the scene and take things in before making her move.  Ruby and Lucas, on the other hand, are dynamos who dive right in.  I love having them around because they really push Norah to do things she would otherwise shy away from (especially with Lucas being so much younger).  They went down this slide a couple of times until Norah scraped the side of her ankle and wanted to sit out for a minute.

The other thing about Ruby is that she is extraordinarily friendly to other kids and makes friends wherever she goes.  Norah is stoked when a kid at a public place approaches her and will gladly play with just about anyone, but she is very, very (very) rarely the one to make the first move.  While Norah sat out for a bit, Ruby made friends with a similarly outgoing girl at the top of the slide.  They went down together several times, came down and said something to Norah, and then started to move off to a different fountain area.  As they walked away, Norah started to cry.  I just assumed it was because they were moving on and I reminded her that we were there to do fun things, not sit on the sidelines and she couldn't expect everyone to just stop what they were doing because she didn't want to do the slide or anything 'scary' anymore.

She told me no, the reason she was crying was because Ruby had introduced the girl to Norah as "my best friend."  I told Norah that she must have misunderstood and that there was no way, no how, no chance that Ruby actually said that.  Norah insisted that she had.  I was about to launch into an explanation of how we sometimes hear things incorrectly when Megan said, "um, I actually think she did say that."  Uh-oh.  Long story short, Ruby makes a best friend wherever she goes.  In fact, when we first moved she would talk to kids at the park and tell them that her best friend Norah had moved away and so she needed a new one that day.  In a move that I would never had expected from a not even five year old, Ruby returned to Norah's side, reassured her that she was her one and only best friend forever and she loved her with her whole heart and could they please go play in the water fountain and do something fun?  All was well.  It was heartbreaking and heartwarming all at the same time.  Lucas probably thought they were nuts.

It was hot but overcast, so somewhat tolerable.  They played in the water and then the sand pit, and then the water again.  We finally convinced them to take a break and have some lunch.

Which may or may not have included gummy worms.

Norah was exhausted and I thought for a split second she might curl up in the grass and fall asleep.  She did not.  She did however, play a rousing game of hide and seek with Ruby and Lucas.  At one point she was hiding and I could not see her.  My eyes had not connected with her face in about ten seconds and my heart pretty much stopped.  Myself, Megan and Aileen all had a moment of panic and I yelled for her only to discover she was hiding next to a wall about a foot from where we were sitting.  I could have reached out and touched her.  She was super pissed we outed her hiding spot.

As we were getting ready to leave a very scared and very lost two year old kind of wandered up to us. She didn't have words yet and so we did our best to keep her calm and find her mom/dad/whoever she was with.  Finally after about ten minutes, her mom wandered up pretty nonchalantly to claim her.  Different strokes, I suppose.

Not too long after we got back to the house, the skies literally opened and it POURED for several hours.  Not only did it pour, but the thunder and lightening was pretty spectacular.  The kids watched another movie in the movie room and although I don't specifically remember, it is quite possible we partook in an early happy hour.

This dude had about 75 popsicles and was feeling much better.

I made a lasagna while Aileen and Megan made a grocery store run to restock some supplies (ie, wine and gummy bears).  The kids were getting antsy and the rain had stopped so I took them on a walk to look for worms.  Four kids, just me.  If it hadn't have been for Lou it would have been a perfect outing (he's ahem, a runner).  Lucas held my hand the entire time and sang songs.  We found a lot of worms.  As Ruby would recount later, we found one dead worm being eaten by ants, one dead worm that had been smushed, and one alive worm.

After dinner the kids made their own desserts by frosting a gluten free muffin (which we convinced them were cupcakes), crumbling on "dirt" (GF oreos) and topping with a gummy worm.  It was a perfectly appropriately treat following our walk.

I can't remember if we got in the pool that day (likely no because of the lightening), but once the skies cleared the girls got in the hot tub.  There is nothing worse about being a pool owner than having wet bathing suits in your house.  That combined with the fact that taking wet swim suits off kids might be one of my least favorite tasks of all times, means that I let my kids take their suits off in the water.  Which of course leads to skinny dipping for a minute.  But who doesn't like skinny dipping?  Norah always loves it but she especially loved it with Ruby.  I think they probably spent more time naked in the pool and hot/tub than they did in suits.  Hey, they were on vacation.

Another late night, another midnight bedtime.  Another glorious day.

Best Weekend Ever (arrival night and Day One)

The day Norah has been waiting months and months for finally arrived and we just spent a glorious five days with Ruby and her mom Megan, and Baby Lucas (who is no longer anything resembling a baby) and his mom Aileen.  Hands down some of our favorite people in the whole wide world and the house is painfully quiet without them.

This is what Norah looked like last Tuesday when I told her she only had one more sleep before Ruby arrived.

We needed a car that could fit three adults and four kids. Wednesday afternoon, I picked up this baby because it claimed it could comfortably seat seven adults.  

While technically I guess that would be possible, three of those seven adults would have to be painfully thin.  And certainly could not be small children riding in gigantic car seats.  It wasn't ideal but we managed.  Thank goodness Aileen has a tiny tush.  

It was late when everyone arrived but Norah made me pinky swear promise that she could go with me to pick them up.  The last time the girls saw each other was Disneyland.  Even though they Facetime (that's talk on the phone with video for you old people), I always have that split second of panic before they see each other that they won't have anything in common, that too much time will have gone by, that they won't even LIKE each other anymore.  Thankfully, my worry is always for naught.  There is no like here.  There is nothing but pure, total, unconditional love.  It's just what a best friend should be.  

Although I got to see Aileen last fall, we had not seen Lucas since the last time we were in the bay area, which was December of 2011.  He wasn't even two!  Now he's a fully formed three year old and he's awesome.  He took to the girls right away and was a part of the action every step of the way.  At first we thought he would be a good playmate for Lou, but nothing makes you realize the difference between two and three year olds than trying to get a two and three year old to play together.  

We got home, gave everyone the grand tour of the house and then let the girls loose.  Lou was already fast asleep, Lucas followed suit not too long after, but those girls stayed up for hours.  As in, did not close their eyes until 2:30 in the morning.  I couldn't believe they were still on their feet (none of the grown-ups were).  Clearly there was a lot to catch up on.  

When Ruby was here last summer it was hot.  Really hot.  Hot to the point where it was hard to move around.  I was expecting the worst this time around, but the universe was smiling on us and every day was overcast, breezy, and more often that not, rainy.  It cut into some of our pool time, but the pros far outweighed the cons.  It was remarkably pleasant to be able to move around and get in the car without feeling as though we might die.  The next morning we goofed around as long as anyone wanted and then went to the dinosaur dig and splash pad park approximately three minutes away.

  

After the park there was more lounging, a movie up in the movie room, playing outside in the backyard, popsicle eating, and wine spritzers before 3:00 pm.  Moms were on vacation too. 

The afternoon and early evening was so pleasant that we sent BVZ out to get bbq (about 30 seconds after he got home from work--he does have some redeeming qualities!) and set up on the front driveway with a bucket full of sidewalk chalk.  Lou loves to play in water when Norah is chalking, so I let him have the hose with the smallest drizzle of water.  The girls soon realized that chalk and water makes paint/paste and proceeded to create masterpieces on both the concrete and themselves.  At one point they were painting Norah blue (Smurfette) and Ruby green (Elphaba).  I am still finding chalk under Norah's nails, a full week later.

Lucas and Lou were having a great time until, when out of nowhere, Lou started to cry for so discernible reason and could not be comforted for a good fifteen minutes.  He felt warm and so I took his temp and found he had a 102 fever.  I had a split second (terrible) vision of a weekend of four sick kids, but thankfully it didn't last and didn't spread to anyone else.

The boys went to bed, the girls stayed up until at least midnight, and the moms gave up trying to make them go to bed and had cocktails instead.  A win-win for all.

To be continued...

Duet

Round Up

I anticipated things would slow down a bit after a recent work milestone, but instead the hectic nature of things keeps tick, tick, ticking along.  Work is still busy, kids are still busy, life is still busy.  I continue to over commit myself--somehow I managed to get myself roped into serving as vice president of the elementary school PTA for the 2013-14 school year.  The work for which, of course, starts now.  I know, I know.

Things will slow down at some point.  I hope.

In the meantime, Norah has been working with Bubby in the garden.  They planted basil and a few other herbs, tomatoes, banana peppers, and eggplant.  It is going to be an interesting harvest.

Lou continues to be a bruiser.  He gets put in time out almost every day at school for pushing or dog piling another kid.  He plays rough and loves to wrestle and while certainly the aggression is sometimes out of anger and/or frustration, more often than not it is because he's just trying to play. Norah and Reid are his usual targets.  Shockingly, he (knock on wood) is always gentle, loving, and kind to Baby Camilla.  He brings her toys, tickles her feet, hugs and kisses her, and generally wants to love on her all.the.time.  I think he legitimately really likes her but is also smart enough to know that the first time he dog piles her will be the last time he dog piles anyone.

When Norah was an infant, BVZ went to see his mom and sister and they saw the Pageant of the Masters in Orange County.  He wanted to bring something back for Norah so he got her a shirt from the pageant.  A small.  He figured it might be a little big but she could grow into it.  It has been in her bottom drawer for four and a half years.  It finally fits.

My car has a high backed booster for Norah, which is basically a five-point harnessed car seat for big kids.  It has a 100 lb. weight limit, which means that she will ride in it until she is old enough to ride with nothing other than a seat belt (probably about 10 years old).  She has the same seat in my mom's car since Bubby picks her up from school three days a week.  She has been tall enough for a booster for many months now (there's no back and no harness, you just use the regular seat belt), but just cracked the 40 lb. weight limit.  Most of her friends are in boosters--apparently this is a frequent topic of conversation at pre-K--and she is horrified by the idea that as long as she is in mine or Bubby's car she will ride in the car seat and not a booster.  I say too bad, so sad.  My compromise to her was that we would get a booster to have in case of emergencies and if she rides in BVZ's car (which is exceedingly rare), she could use it.  We drove around the block with it the other day and you would have thought the kid won the freaking lottery.

Later she admitted that her seat in my car is more comfortable and she likes the cup holder.  Suck it, booster seat.

These are the proofs from Norah's pre-K graduation photo shoot.  They are ridiculously cute and despite my proclamation that I won't be taken advantage of by the money making bonanza that is school pictures, I totally ordered a set.

Norah goes to bed in her own bed every single night.  Every single morning she wakes up with me (either in the master bedroom or in the spare bedroom if BVZ is snoring). We aren't really doing anything about it right now, it doesn't bother either me or BVZ and we are both of the mind that there will be a time when she wants nothing to do with us, so we are savoring it for now.  We have talked a lot about it with her and she says that she wakes up during the night and goes to the top of the stairs.  If she hears us she goes back to her bed.  If she doesn't hear us she knows we've gone to bed and she comes to find me.  She says that when it is dark and quiet she doesn't like to be alone.  I can't really blame her.  The other day she convinced Lou to lay down with her.  It lasted about 15 seconds.  

There is a great blog floating around called Reasons My Son is Crying.  Check it out, it's funny.  There are so many photos of Lou that could be on the site.  Like this one.  He's crying because the sidewalk is "bumpy."

Sidewalk chalk is a big after dinner event around here.  Our driveway is a swing one, meaning it's on the side of the house rather than in front.  It is a great place for chalking, riding bikes, and general mayhem and it's somewhat protected from traffic in the street.  Norah did this totally on her own the other day.  See why I don't care that she won't sleep in her own bed?

I refuse to pay the gas bill that it would take to heat the pool, so we are waiting until the water is warm enough from the sun (we checked tonight and it's really close).  I will however, heat up the hot tub, and we spend a lot of time in there.

Louie was really sick last week with his 800th ear infection.  I took the day off from work to take him to the doctor and give him some TLC.  Bubby came over to watch HGtv while he took a nap, I picked up Norah from school, and treated her to an afternoon movie and ice cream.  We saw The Crood's.  It was crazy fun.

The kids have been using my phone to take selfies.  They are cute, but they can take 100 photos in about 30 seconds, so I go through and do a lot of deleting.

It's also warm enough to get the sprinklers out.  The other day Reid and Lou had a great time.  Lou is really coordinated and can easily take his clothes (and diaper) off himself.  He's going to be such an easy teenager.

We had a low-key mother's day.  Breakfast at home and then a fun lunch with everyone at Bubby's house.  BVZ took Norah and Lou to Target and let them pick out whatever they wanted for me.  Norah got me a lovely sun hat that I plan to use all summer.  Lou got me a king size tootsie roll.

Norah also did a drawing of us jumping rope together over a rainbow.  It's awfully nice to have someone like her around.

Camilla is fat and happy and so cute.  I love having a baby around that I don't have to feed or be around at 3:00 am.

I give Lou a hard time because he is in fact a monster, but he's also incredibly cute and sweet and lovable.  He talks so much these days, in complete sentences and can articulate full ideas.  When I tell him I love him he tells me, "Oh, I love you so much!" If he seems me hugging Norah he comes and throws his arms around us and yells, "group hug!"  He asks to snuggle all the time.  He sings lots of songs, mostly theme songs to television shows, and tells knock-knock jokes.  He has a great sense of humor--his days as the class clown have just begun.

Consolation Prize

Ear infections suck. But he does have the body of a supermodel. Win some, lose some.